Yesterday when I around 23.00 clock came home, I found the following comment to the blog post " Christmas past is"
has Anonymous said ...
Is a bullet in the head but the best for everyone.
first My parents do not need with a trans .... Deal
second Their status in society is maintained.
third My siblings were so like so no contact with me
4th One of them has stolen a year of my time than it took me to the funny farm.
5th And thus I also took away my child.
6th So what `s seventh
I ask where is there a meaning?
8th Many say the suicide is not a solution but no one speaks of redemption
Do not have courage but the time comes where it goes boom.
When I read this comment, I was initially very shocked. By the information in the comments, I had a guess who might be the commentator. I cried the first time to my girlfriend Farah, even as their host and reporter knows that I did not know how I should respond. Luckily she had the idea to an acquaintance from near the comment writer to call. She then asked to go to her and look after this matter, because we were worried seriously that they could have done something. She did not answer the phone even though Farah has tried to call her several times. Our friends drove to the apartment of the comment writer, and could find no expression in the apartment, whereupon she alerted the police, who turned out. Fortunately, our friends who had written the comment intact and it also turned out in fact that they left the comment on my blog had.
We are all very relieved, as I said, that she has done nothing, because people who act stuck in a depressive phase, unfortunately, not rational and unpredictable. I have in my former friends, unfortunately, already 2 Selbstötungen noticed and I would not lose any more friends or acquaintances.
Farah and I have this night or this morning for a long time with each other on the phone and she said that I would very much like our friend. I can also understand very well our friends, you hang in there in a hole, reinforced by the holidays and hopes on the one hand, help from friends or acquaintances, hence the call for help in the blog, on the other hand, no one wants to see and crawls, pulls the covers over his head and this does not answer the phone. The whole thing is very paradoxical and for outsiders and those who have never experienced such a thing, to not understand.
Our acquaintance has what her family regards a hard time and I would probably go like when I was in their situation. But she has not only her family but also friends and friends who assist her and to whom they can turn to. I believe that one should keep as a transgender person is a network with other transgender people maintain in order to manage such situations better. There are always again these or similar situations in the life of a transgender person experience, where we need someone who catches one and a listen and feel where you are valued and understood. It does not matter whether that person lives in the neighborhood or at the other end of Germany. Not every person is so strong that they can survive these difficult times without help, so are the contacts with other transgender friends and friends important and possibly also a psychotherapist. Such a network set up and maintain required course work and constant care, but as we did last night or today morning was seen, it is important that we have a Such a network and I have been evidenced by the importance of friends that you have. Our transgender Euregio Meeting (TET) is because as a very good way to make contacts with others to maintain and expand.
So if anyone has problems, he or she can contact me at any time. I will always have an open ear, and then maybe you can find together a way out of the seemingly intractable situation. If you still do not have my phone number, so you get them if you send me an email. My email address is: lkosn@yahoo.de .
Another way to get help, is certainly the telephone counseling . This is anonymous and is carried out by trained personnel.
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